Top 5 Online Dating Tips For Men - What You Can Do to Get More Hot Women Faster

I spent two years figuring out online dating sites before I achieved any kind of real success. But, once I nailed down the science of online dating, I found it to be one of the easiest and most effective methods of dating. In this article, I'm going to reveal my top 5 online dating tips... secrets that will save you years of frustration and anguish. Online Dating Tip #1: Choosing the Right Network This is the biggest mistake I see people make with online dating. I see women looking for relationships on sex and swinger sites. I see men looking for casual sex on singles sites. And, the worst, guys posing as women on lesbian dating sites. But, choosing the network that best fits your wants and desires is the first, most crucial step in the entire process. When you get the network right, you can find yourself with more potential matches than you know what to do with. So, if you're looking for a relationship, check out singles sites like: 1. Match.com 2. Singles.net 3. JustSayHi.com If you're looking for more casual sexual relationships, check out sex and swinger sites like: 1. AdultFriendFinder.com 2. Fling.com 3. HornyMatches.com Most of these sites offer free limited memberships... and, you'll find many that offer full access to their site for free. Check out a few different networks and find which one works for you. You'll find that depending on where you live, some sites are more popular in that particular area over others. So, try out a few and see which ones you like. Online Dating Tip #2: Building a Sexy Network The concept is called social proof. And, it says that people will tend to do what they see other people doing. Or, in moments of uncertainty, one of the ways we decide what to do is by looking at what other people are doing in that same moment. One of the best ways you can have massive success on online dating sites is to build a large network of desirable friends. In fact, this is the first thing I do when I join any online dating site. I immediately befriend the most desirable people on the network... both men and women. Now, befriending the women seems obvious. But, you might be wondering why I would befriend the men. That's because a person's friends will show up on their profile page. So, when a woman searches for men and she lands on some guy's profile. If I'm his friend... I'll show up on his page. And, that increases the chance of her seeing my picture on clicking over. And, the more profiles I'm on... the more those chances are increased. So, befriend as many good-looking men and women as you can when you first join a network. It will give you social proof AND it will increase the chances of a woman finding your profile. Online Dating Tip #3: Maximizing Time and Effort If you've been on any online dating sites before, then you know you can literally get lost for hours in all the profiles, pictures, videos, forums, and so on. But, much of that time can be time wasted... so, it's important to maximize both your time and your effort. Here's how I quickly find dates on online dating sites: 1. Hotlisting. When I first join a network, the very first action I take is to search for women in my area and hotlist all the ones I'm interested in. Most sites offer some sort of hotlisting feature that will allow you to do this. What this does is allow me to move through all the potential women in my area quickly and set aside the ones I'm interested. Then, once I've cruised through all of profiles, I can come back to my hotlist and I have a nice, neat list of potential women I can contact, befriend, flirt with, and so on. 2. Canned Openings Once I have my hotlist in place, then I'll start contacting each woman using mostly canned openers. Meaning, I just copy and paste the same opener for each woman and send it to her. Now, I will pay attention to their profile and add in any stipulations they might make for contacting them... but, other than that, it's all generic. Also, my openers don't reveal interest immediately. A lot of guys get on these sites and start sending raunchy, approval-seeking emails to every woman in site. < I do the opposite. The openers I use are very nonchalant. I simply spark a normal conversation with her, instead of talking about dating, meeting up, or sex. 3. Get to the Point Once I've started a conversation with a woman... and, she is responding well, THEN (and only then) do I get straight to the point. I tell her I want to meet up, I tell her my stipulations for meeting, and I tell her to give me a decision. I don't waste my time chatting for weeks or months before meeting a woman. You'll find plenty of women willing to meet you right away... IF you approach them in the right way. Online Dating Tip #4: Writing Your Profile Now, here's where you can get into a woman's head a little. One of my favorite techniques for writing online profile pages is using role reversal. You see, most guys do one of two things on their online dating profiles: 1. They list all the reasons a woman should like them. Or... 2. They act like complete jerks. Instead, what I do is I assume I'm the catch (cause I am). Have you ever read a good-looking woman's profile on an online dating site? Try it sometime. You can tell these women receive probably hundreds of messages a day from horny guys hitting on them, because their profile read like a list of do's and dont;s. Very little of their profile is them trying to sell themselves. Why? Because, they don't need to sell themselves... guys already want them. In fact, usually, they try to scare guys away with their profiles. When I write my profile, I emulate a hot woman's style. I write it like I have hundreds of hot women messaging me each day... and, I've got to beat them off with a stick. So, my profile reads like a list of do's and dont's for contacting me. The best way to figure this out is to find the profiles of several hot women and pay attention to how they write their profiles. Then, simply emulate their style. You won't believe how much better your response will be. Online Dating Tip #5: Profile Pictures It's amazing how many guys screw this up... and, it's SO simple. Here's where you need to leave all the "just be yourself" advice you've ever heard in your life at the door. DO NOT be your regular everyday self in your profile picture. Be your BEST self. Upload your best profile picture. Yes, it may suck... yes, it may seem shallow... yes, it SHOULDN'T matter... but, guess what? It does. You'll receive a tremendous boost in not only the responses you get from women, but the way they talk to and interact with you on the site... just by uploading a picture of yourself that shows off your BEST assets... not your worst ones. The Bottom Line The bottom line of all these tips is to increase the value of the interactions you have with women on online dating sites. Using just one of these tips, you'll notice how much better women respond to you. But, the real power is in using them all... when you work all five of these online dating tips to your advantage, you'll find yourself with more women than you know what to do with.

I spent two years figuring out online dating sites before I achieved any kind of real success. But, once I nailed down the science of online dating, I found it to be one of the easiest and most effective methods of dating.

In this article, I'm going to reveal my top 5 online dating tips... secrets that will save you years of frustration and anguish.

Online Dating Tip #1: Choosing the Right Network

This is the biggest mistake I see people make with online dating. I see women looking for relationships on sex and swinger sites. I see men looking for casual sex on singles sites. And, the worst, guys posing as women on lesbian dating sites.

But, choosing the network that best fits your wants and desires is the first, most crucial step in the entire process. When you get the network right, you can find yourself with more potential matches than you know what to do with.

So, if you're looking for a relationship, check out singles sites like:

1. Match.com

2. Singles.net

3. JustSayHi.com

If you're looking for more casual sexual relationships, check out sex and swinger sites like:

1. AdultFriendFinder.com

2. Fling.com

3. HornyMatches.com

Most of these sites offer free limited memberships... and, you'll find many that offer full access to their site for free. Check out a few different networks and find which one works for you. You'll find that depending on where you live, some sites are more popular in that particular area over others. So, try out a few and see which ones you like.

Online Dating Tip #2: Building a Sexy Network

The concept is called social proof. And, it says that people will tend to do what they see other people doing. Or, in moments of uncertainty, one of the ways we decide what to do is by looking at what other people are doing in that same moment.

One of the best ways you can have massive success on online dating sites is to build a large network of desirable friends. In fact, this is the first thing I do when I join any online dating site.

I immediately befriend the most desirable people on the network... both men and women. Now, befriending the women seems obvious. But, you might be wondering why I would befriend the men. That's because a person's friends will show up on their profile page.

So, when a woman searches for men and she lands on some guy's profile. If I'm his friend... I'll show up on his page. And, that increases the chance of her seeing my picture on clicking over. And, the more profiles I'm on... the more those chances are increased.

So, befriend as many good-looking men and women as you can when you first join a network. It will give you social proof AND it will increase the chances of a woman finding your profile.

Online Dating Tip #3: Maximizing Time and Effort

If you've been on any online dating sites before, then you know you can literally get lost for hours in all the profiles, pictures, videos, forums, and so on. But, much of that time can be time wasted... so, it's important to maximize both your time and your effort.

Here's how I quickly find dates on online dating sites:

1. Hotlisting.

When I first join a network, the very first action I take is to search for women in my area and hotlist all the ones I'm interested in. Most sites offer some sort of hotlisting feature that will allow you to do this. What this does is allow me to move through all the potential women in my area quickly and set aside the ones I'm interested.

Then, once I've cruised through all of profiles, I can come back to my hotlist and I have a nice, neat list of potential women I can contact, befriend, flirt with, and so on. 2. Canned Openings

Once I have my hotlist in place, then I'll start contacting each woman using mostly canned openers. Meaning, I just copy and paste the same opener for each woman and send it to her. Now, I will pay attention to their profile and add in any stipulations they might make for contacting them... but, other than that, it's all generic.

Also, my openers don't reveal interest immediately. A lot of guys get on these sites and start sending raunchy, approval-seeking emails to every woman in site. <

I do the opposite. The openers I use are very nonchalant. I simply spark a normal conversation with her, instead of talking about dating, meeting up, or sex.

3. Get to the Point Once I've started a conversation with a woman... and, she is responding well, THEN (and only then) do I get straight to the point. I tell her I want to meet up, I tell her my stipulations for meeting, and I tell her to give me a decision.

I don't waste my time chatting for weeks or months before meeting a woman. You'll find plenty of women willing to meet you right away... IF you approach them in the right way.

Online Dating Tip #4: Writing Your Profile

Now, here's where you can get into a woman's head a little. One of my favorite techniques for writing online profile pages is using role reversal. You see, most guys do one of two things on their online dating profiles:

1. They list all the reasons a woman should like them. Or...

2. They act like complete jerks.

Instead, what I do is I assume I'm the catch (cause I am). Have you ever read a good-looking woman's profile on an online dating site? Try it sometime. You can tell these women receive probably hundreds of messages a day from horny guys hitting on them, because their profile read like a list of do's and dont;s.

Very little of their profile is them trying to sell themselves. Why? Because, they don't need to sell themselves... guys already want them. In fact, usually, they try to scare guys away with their profiles.

When I write my profile, I emulate a hot woman's style. I write it like I have hundreds of hot women messaging me each day... and, I've got to beat them off with a stick. So, my profile reads like a list of do's and dont's for contacting me. The best way to figure this out is to find the profiles of several hot women and pay attention to how they write their profiles. Then, simply emulate their style. You won't believe how much better your response will be.

Online Dating Tip #5: Profile Pictures

It's amazing how many guys screw this up... and, it's SO simple. Here's where you need to leave all the "just be yourself" advice you've ever heard in your life at the door. DO NOT be your regular everyday self in your profile picture.

Be your BEST self. Upload your best profile picture. Yes, it may suck... yes, it may seem shallow... yes, it SHOULDN'T matter... but, guess what? It does.

You'll receive a tremendous boost in not only the responses you get from women, but the way they talk to and interact with you on the site... just by uploading a picture of yourself that shows off your BEST assets... not your worst ones.

The Bottom Line

The bottom line of all these tips is to increase the value of the interactions you have with women on online dating sites. Using just one of these tips, you'll notice how much better women respond to you. But, the real power is in using them all... when you work all five of these online dating tips to your advantage, you'll find yourself with more women than you know what to do with.

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